Alla Shapiro

Mental Health Counselor, LMHC-D, LPC

Contact Info

718-283-4877
alla@allashapiropsychotherapy.com
Website

Licenses

  • Mental Health Counselor
    New York

  • Mental Health Counselor
    New Jersey

Location

LIVINGSTON, NEW JERSEY 07039
Telephone: 718-283-4877

I am a licensed couples therapist providing couples therapy in New York City, New Jersey, and Florida specializing in communication problems, relationship conflict, trust issues, sex and intimacy concerns, and major life transitions.

I also specialize in helping couples navigate chronic stress and conflict related to extended family systems, including in-law relationships, family-of-origin dynamics, cultural or intergenerational expectations, and boundary-setting challenges.

These ongoing dynamics often place strain on the couple’s relationship, contributing to recurring conflict, emotional reactivity, loyalty binds, and difficulty establishing a unified partnership. Couples may feel caught between their partner and their family, or struggle to present a cohesive team in the face of external pressure.

In therapy, I help couples identify these patterns, reduce triangulation, strengthen communication, and build clearer boundaries with extended family while reinforcing the couple as the primary emotional unit.

I work with:

• Couples struggling with communication, conflict, or emotional disconnection

• Couples recovering from infidelity or rebuilding trust

• Extended family / in-law stress

• Individuals experiencing infertility, pregnancy, postpartum, or parenting-related stress

• Couples balancing parenting demands while maintaining a strong partnership

• Partners seeking a more secure, connected, and fulfilling relationship



Specialties

  • Infidelity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Family Conflict
  • Life Transitions
  • Sex Therapy

Modalities

  • Individuals
  • Couples

Special Populations

  • LGBTQIA+

Treatment Methods

  • Attachment-based
  • Emotionally Focused Couple's Therapy (EFCT)
  • Gottman Method
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Interpersonal (IPT)
  • Behavior Modification

Age Groups

  • Adults
  • Young Adults (20's & 30's)

Alternative Language

  • Hebrew
  • Russian

Religious Orientation

  • Jewish